What I think is challenging is that in any kind of community, especially a school community, people are very reluctant to pass judgement, to get involved [when people divorce]. The modern day rules as a bystander are that the best thing you can do is be fair, don't take anyone's side, be equally pleasant. And I think that adds another level of stress because there's so much rage and so much anger going on, for both people obviously, they actually need people to take sides. They need positions taken or stands taken or acknowledgement that it's not that even-steven.
Toronto single mother Eve Kesaric, profiled here in a post titled Rethinking The Koffee Klatch
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